It was plain - maybe I am too much of a plain jane.
It was mundane - was I even worth the effort?
It was upsetting - bet you never did realized.
It was forgotten - why am I even carrying the slightest hope?
It was self-centered - it's different from being individualistic or independent.
It was rushed - did you even think through it thoroughly before asking?

It was vulnerability that got the better of me and I've no idea what else I should do.